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I once had a blog here, mainly about how great Christianity is. Then I discovered the darker abusive sides of Christianity, and how indoctrination, emotional/spiritual abuse and purity culture is also a part of Lutheran theology and The Church of Denmark – and how it has adversely affected my life.

You can read more about that in the Google slideshow, that I created last year. Go to

If you want to know more about the connection between religious trauma and Evangelical Christianity – and what it takes to recover and heal from it, then I highly recommend:

Jamie Lee Finch:
The Life After Podcast: “You Are Your Own” with Jamie Lee Finch
Blake Chastain talks with Jamie about her book, religious trauma, and more.
Book: You Are Your Own
Epub & Audiobook:
Paperback & Kindle:,,

Marlene Winell:
Book: Leaving the fold.

The Airing of Grief
Everyone’s Agnostic Podcast
Living After Faith
Life After God
The Thinking Atheist

There will be much more about this, introversion, sex and sexuality, and more, on my new blog.

– Bjarke Raabjerg
INFP, Freethinker and Ethical Slut.

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